I also do all 3... Kalk, CA reactor, and a bit of baking soda.... I watch the PH swing (which give me a good feel for buffering, a.k.a. Alk levels) over the day and over the week, and tweak the Kalk and Soda. I keep the CA reactor running at a moderate to low level. Required combination will depend on the tank consumption, water changes ( amount and kind of salt, i.e. "reef" type with higher calcium, etc.) and other factors, of course.
Sad bit true: I was thinking I had not changed reactor media in a while, and changed it yesterday. I found the note I wrote on the chamber that it was last filled on Jan 27th of 07... It is oversized, and I have a second output chamber to help with PH and give it a bit more to work with, so it was not completely off, however it was kind of dumb.
If I remember correctly from my original research, the CA reactor may also provide a bit of trace supplement. It is a least worth it to add that to your research list.
-Mike