yeah--I hardly ever add calc.-and mine are doing great! I guess it wouldn't hurt to test my water-I haven't done that in a LONG time--guess I'm growing too lazy here lately-
And there are sites that market "filter clams" for filtering nitrates. While they do just that, you'd have to have a HUGE clam bed to do any significant filtration over other methods. It's basically an analog to plants in a refugium: yes, they suck up nitrates, but nowhere nearly enough to make much of a dent in your tank unless you have a huge refugium. Macro just doesn't compete with micro.
The "filter clams" can also be cold water species which can introduce bacteria and parasites that can bloom out of control in a warm reef. Some people use them without problems (I wouldn't say "with success"), but it's a risk that could wipe your tank for little to no reward. Especially if you have any Tridacnid clams in your system.