CedzAquAddiction;833842 wrote: :confused2::huh::confused2: LOL...
Well, last night while feeding my livestock, the lonesome male seemed to have had enough, and swam over to the female and "her" nem. He swam right up to her, and though she pushed him away, he persisted. It's like once he had first contact with the nem, he was hooked. They fought for a while, and she finally gave up.
They are now happily hosting the nem together. :yay:

:thumbs::shades::up:
I guess things lined up just how I wanted, and all parties are comfortable. My 2 clowns are hosting my nem, right in the center of my tank within view. Hopefully, the nem is comfortable there, and won't move, but, if it does, I'm sure both clowns will go with it.
Funny how things come together...