The 7 stages of grief.
1. Shock - Yup.
2. Denial - The "maybe the crack isnt so bad" moment.
3. Guilt - Should have hired professionals...
4. Anger - PVC is fun to smash.
5. Depression - You are now here.
6. Working through it....Ok lets see where this goes.
So here I am trying to figure out what to do. My wife is angry because the never ending project is never ending, as am I. My back is hurt to the point doing all this over again is out of the question. My only choices are to give up, or open my wallet and hire help.
Im not giving up. Ive been in this hobby for 25 years, it brings me peace as it will once more.
Master plan was to setup the system on the cheap (rubbermaid sumps, DIY filtration equipment from my last tank and such), get it running and 5-10 years later when life settles down I would upgrade items. Get a real custom sump, pumps and skimmers with a warranty, new nice stuff that works better than my DIY stuff.
So lets watch the downward spiral into madness.
-I need a new tank.
-A used one may take years to find so I must buy new.
-Well if a 4x4 tank is going to cost me $5k, whats a 4x8 tank cost...$7K. Ok thats not much of an increase and I get a whole new custom tank. I will do that.
-BUT if I do that the drains will be in different locations, that means redoing the plumbing under the frag tank. Not only that I have to rearrange the sumps to accept the new layout.
-Well if I have to redo the sumps I may as well just get a nice sump too, Im already spending a ton of money anyway.
-Ok Im getting a new tank and sump, who can I get to do this, deliver it, pipe it and connect it to the pipes on the wall.
-I call MRC and SEA and setup a meeting.
-In sump UV, yes Ill have that.
-Nice new Calc reactor, sure Ill have that too.
-Kalk reactor, yup
-Huge filter roller, yup
-LEDs I was already planning to get, yeah add it to the list.
-I get a quote....its big.
-Oh crap I still need a carpenter. 4 more tries and I land on my saviors Kellogg Creek Cabinetry
As
@Rainblood said to start. Id been eyeing a Ferrari 458 since they came out. Watching the prices slowly fall to where I might be able to get one. They fell, and fell and fell, and 2021 ended and so did the fall. Car market went insane.
After talking it over with my wife its decided my car down payment will now be my tank budget, and the car can wait until prices fall back to normal.
7. Acceptance. Im litterally trashing nearly 2 years of work. BUT Im getting what I want, it will cost a...LOT of money but I am no longer responsible for issues with the equipment. Im old, Im broken but I will make it work.
That was 8 months ago. The next 4 months were me taking a break from the fish stuff. The last 4 months Ive been working to get things ready. Now the fun REALLY starts.