Plenty of LFS *do* take a stand and don't order them.
And many hobbyists buy them to solve a problem (ie parasites), but IMO that's not the best way to address the problem of parasites. Neither is UV, for example. Both might help to some extent but unless the causes are addressed, the problem will persist.
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. That would eliminate the perceived "necessity" of having a cleaner wrasse.
One of the biggest problems with identifying organisms as "unsuitable" is that in some cases, the opinion is very subjective. There are always exceptions - keepers who have unexplained (or explained) success with a creature that is generally considered impossible to keep in captivity.
Heck, at one time, just about everything was considered impossible to keep. Through study, trial and error, the hobbyist community has learned to keep many things that weren't doable even a few years ago.
IMO education is the key. While a given creature may not be a good impulse buy to a beginner, it might be perfectly suitable to an advanced hobbyist with a specialized system.
I do agree that cleaner wrasses and many other species, are best left in the wild, for the most part. And yes, when consumers stop demanding them, the rest of the chain of custody will eventually respond.
Jenn