I've got a few but they're bigger and black.  It does appear to be alive.  As soon as they die, their shell usually opens up.   I've never known a hitchhiker clam to be a problem.  If it were in my tank, I'd place it in a divot on a rock and see what happens.  I have one that I've never seen open but after a few weeks in one spot I tried to move it and it had attached itself to the rock.