First, thank you Bobby this a great thread! I loved it when I first saw it, hopefully it helps some of us just think back and realize why we started and why we do this hobby!
Like Adam we only had fresh water fish growing up, a 55 gallon tank was the largest we ever had with 2 Oscars in them. If anyone knows anything about Oscars, they are some mean son of a guns!!! They are very aggressive and will fight to the death if they don't like one another. We also had gold fish, but sorry that's a bit boring! Even as a kid I always wanted a salt water tank, but never pulled the trigger for what ever reason. Around November 2017 right before my second son was born I made the choice to buy a 55 gallon fresh water bow front. That was a huge mistake, because I still wanted my salt water so I sold it about a year later and came across this site while researching. Plus I wanted a hobby that I could get the family to enjoy with me, even if Im doing all of the work!
Once I found this site and looking at everyones tank and reading their stories and such, I knew I was in the right place and started making a plan. Making this plan included picking equipment, changing equipment, asking repetitive questions at times, and just wanting guidance. My wife hated it, because I have spent endless hours on here reading, looking at pics, tanks, equipment, and the list goes on. I am now at the point where Im getting ready to complete my aqua scape and add water, Im getting so excited just writing this! At the same time I nervous as heck, anxious, and tired at the same time because i know I still have a long way to go!!!
Like you guys said you learn so much in this hobby, you have to be a handyman, plumber, electrician, floor supporter, chemist, and care giver. Thats what i love, and just look forward to continuing to learn and grow with you guys knowledge wise, corals, and fish!!! Sorry I'm so long winded, but its just so exciting to me!!!