SnowManSnow;1003217 wrote: here's my 2cents man,
1st: Reef tanking is a learned hobby. It isn't something you can "buy". A skilled reef aquarist with a green thumb is rare, but you'll get there! Before long it will seem less like hit and miss and more like a natural ability
2nd: Read stuff thats over your head.(no offense). I may be on the slow side of humanity, but I read reef articles that are over my head... A decent starting place is to find "Coral Magazine". You'll be surprised how quickly you start speaking the language. Even if you don't understand 3/4 of the 12 page article you just read... go for it anyway. Become a brainiac of reefing.
3rd: Don't be afraid to think on your own. Although there are parameters and guidelines to adhere to, there isn't really a set way to do things. The hobby is VERY new, and no one knows everything. Believing there is only one way to have a reef tank is like believing there is only one way to rear children. 1 + 1 doesn't always yield 2 in the real world. Do what works for you.
4th: It doesn't seem like a lot of fun.. but think of yourself as a "water keeper". If you keep your water correctly all the other stuff will find a way to thrive in the environment. Thats what the successful keepers do.... keep water.
Hope my shallow 2 cents of advice helps you out. I'm in the Rome area. Let me know if I can ever help.
B