H2OEng;900170 wrote: Hi Chris, I'm glad to hear things are going good! I haven't walked a mile in your shoes but I've walked it right behind you in a sense. My wife started less than a month after my daughter was born with ovarian cancer about a year later with breast cancer then bladder cancer. I lost my mom when she was barely 46 and on her 3rd round with breast cancer; my grand mother (mom's mom) earlier this year, my other grand mother, an uncle, an aunt plus a few more great's. Trust me when I say there's not much I haven't seen when it comes to cancer. I've shaved my share of heads due to chemo.
For the first year or two after my wife was fist diagnosed I did everything I could to keep things going. She went behind my back accepting donations from both our Church and family. She did this behind my back b/c she knew I've got the ego (and attitude) that I will take are of everything. I could have probably done it but to honest what my wife did certainly allowed me a little sanity at the time.
It took me quite a while to understand that accepting this even behind my back wasn't charity. It was other people repaying what others had done for them. Allow me and I'm sure other's on ARC to repay what others have done for us. Down the road after things settle down you can do the same! What comes around goes around...
Edit: I also meant to mention... My wife's is now 7 years cancer free!