Great advice here so far! I’ll reiterate some major points.
1) Patience, patience, patience. Letting your tank cycle for a couple months is a great start! But continue this patience afterwards. Try to limit yourself to ~2 additions at a time in the beginning, with at least 1-2 weeks between new purchases... And use the time in between to research, learn, and plan upcoming purchases. This will save your money and heartache from corals/fish deaths. And you’ll learn so much in this time.
2) Learn to test your water. This includes getting a backup thermometer, and a Refractometer (Hydrometers are prone to lots of errors and often cheaply made). Refracts are often about $18-25; no need to spend $50-70 that some places charge for them.
3) Clownfish are nearly indestructible, and make great first fish. 95% of the time, if a clownfish dies, then something is seriously wrong. I recommend any variation of Ocellaris or Perculas (these include Picassso, Davinci, Wyoming Whites, and most of the cool designer names). I would avoid Maroons (Lightning Maroons and Gold Nuggets) or Clarkii clowns. These get big and aggressive.
4) Green Star Polyps are a great beginner coral. Find one with a vibrant green color. While these corals can grow out of control, they can be managed by putting them on a rock island that is not connected to the rest of the rock structure. These corals also serve as a great ‘canary’ coral... meaning if something bad happens to your water quality down the road, you’ll notice immediately as these guys will not be fully extended as normal. Alerting you to test your water and see what’s going on before anything bad happens.
5) Sumps are great! I highly recommend them for making your life easier. Not only do they increase your water volume and keep unsightly skimmers and heaters out of your display tank, but they also allow you to use higher quality skimmers as many HOB and mini’s don’t work as well and/or increase your risk of leaks.
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6) How to cycle a reef tank? (It is Similar to freshwater)
a) Fill your tank with saltwater, rockwork, and sand... and turn on your pumps.
-For Saltwater, a specific gravity of 1.025 +/- 0.001 is a good starting point for reefs. However, you can get away with as low as 1.015 for fish-only before you add coral. This will save you a few bucks. If mixing your own water from the tap (not recommended but doable), use a dechloronator.
b) if using a sump; you don’t want your tank to overflow if all pumps fail due to a power outage. So turn everything off and watch your tank/sump (whichever is lower to the ground) for a few minutes. If it starts to get close to overflowing, use a bucket to remove a bit of water until it is not an issue. Turn pumps back on when done.
c) Add your Bacteria. This may have been done previously if using already wet live-rock, and/or wet live-sand. If they’re completely dry, they’re not live.
d) Add some food for the bacteria. A very very tiny amount of something to decompose. Depending on the size of the tank; maybe a couple fish food pellets could be more than enough. Note: this will increase unsightly algae growth, but will also help the bacteria along. Don’t add too much food.
e) wait... lol. You need time for the food to decompose, bacteria to nitrify Ammonia to Nitrite and then to Nitrate (2+ different populations of bacteria). These populations need to grow, have babies, those babies to have babies, and those ones to have babies, and so on. As such, there’s no quick-cycle 24 hour magic out there. Feeding human children healthy foods and vegetables can help them grow stronger, taller, and slightly faster; but at the end of the day, you’ll always need to wait ~20 years for them to become adults. No human will mature fully in 1 year, lol. There’s no hard-and-fast rule for how long to wait for aquariums, but longer is better. It can be hard to wait sometimes; I think 1-2 months is more than reasonable. Then, is a good time to do a large (25-40%) water change before you add any livestock if your nitrates are high.
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7) Add first fish!
You’ll want your Ammonia and Nitrites to be completely zero at this point. Nitrates can be higher; but not those first two. If Nitrates are Zero, something is weird. Consult us, as your tank may not have cycled.
Good luck! And feel free to ask questions and post photos on here. We’re here to help.