No we do not have to agree to disagree... we have to agree that you do not understand what you are spewing from your mouth. (or fingers as the case might be)
This is kind of like the time you tried to convince me that Randy Holmes had written articles on fish pathology. Do you not realize that I (along with people like Jeremy, Raj, Steve, Kevin etc) know most of these people that you quote from personally? We have these conversations over drinks at MACNAs and dive trips.
You are right, Jake knows his flow dynamics better then I could ever hope to. I have talked to him in length about it. I do not agree that flow is MORE important then light. But I NEVER said that there was not some sort of diffusion boundary layer in flow dynamics, heck there is in everything according to molecular physics.
See your problem is that you keep on switching topics. First it is about O2, then it was about food and feeding, now it is back to O2. As I stated earlier, flow dynamics is very different then source feeding done by corals. You keep on mixing the two. For feeding of particle matter (phyto, micro food, heck even macro foods), slower flow would dictate a higher success rate of food capture. As a current ebbs and flows in the ocean, you have a period of high velocity and a period of calm. Theories (and much fact in research) shows that a coral captures most of its food during the moment of ebb. The flow replaces the food captured in the ebb with new source food. The cycle begins again. Now in many corals, they leave their feeders out all night. Once it has captured all the food it can, the feeds can not capture any more. So it would not matter if you had a tank of nothing but phyto. Once it is filled up, it is done for the night. So for feeding, it would not matter if you had slow flow and an ebb or fast flow and an ebb as long as you have the ebb to allow the coral to have contact time with the food source. Now, most tanks do not have an ebb and flow system in place. The flow is either 100% or it is off. So if you blast your corals with lets say 1000 GPH water all the time vs having flow of 100 gph, you can expect the coral to not be able to feed as well because it can not capture food as easily. Which moves us into out next topic, O2 exchange.
You are correct, via Jake's article. that physics dictates that you have a smaller membrane at higher flow rates. I said prior that one of the properties of gas exchange was velocity of the water. So you just found out that Jake says the same thing. But what I wrote was about why a skimmer does not impart O2 into the water like most people think. As far as my comment about air vs water... Water flow is happening even in a sealed system with not pumps. On the atomic level there is always an equilibrium trying to be reached, this causes water movement. Much in the same way as high and low pressure systems cause wind. You did not think that that cool breeze you felt on a summer afternoon was caused by a guy in Texas with a really big fan, did you?!? So even in the small membrane layer in Jake's description, there is gas exchange. Now with more O2, due to the faster flowing water on the outside of the membrane, there is more gas exchange happening (see post above about 02 and CO2 reaching a balance in ANYTHING). But how much lack of flow is needed before you "suffocate" at coral. Most would contend that this would not happen in a normal aquarium trying to reach an ebb and flow system. Sure, you leave your tank stagnate for a day or two and you might come close but that is not what the OP was going to do. But what would it take?!? I don't know. Most research on the subject has been done in reference to sediment "suffocation" in corals. We know that Porites, for example needs so much oxygen (in the case of this coral it is 0.010.+-.0.001ml O2 cm'-2' h'-1'). We also know about how much it can uptake under normal conditions. What we do not know is how much O2 and CO2 are in YOUR tank! But even not knowing how much O2 is specifically in your tank, I can tell you, baring anything like sand clouds or calcification "snow" you will not reach the levels of "suffocation" that you speak of.
So, yes, Jake's writings are very good. He is great with flow dynamics and his work on turbulent flow (known as the "Jake effect") vs laminar flow is really good. He really knows how to achieve the Jake effect in a tank and I agree, it is really useful. But, again, please stop taking parts of articles and other people's comments and piecing them together without understanding what you are trying to argue or the bigger picture of how it all works.
Edit: BTW, I am not getting pissy, I mean all the stabs in jest.