Do you have a lot of stony corals? 30 to 40 ppm of calcium per day is quite a bit. Calcium consumption is about 18-20 ppm per 2.8dKH. So that would mean you're going through 4 to 5.6dKH a day too. That's a crazy high amount and would mean after a day of no added Alk you'd be at 5 to 3.4dKH from your normal 9dKH, until the coral started getting dissolved to make up the Alk. As you can see something isn't adding up. If you're truly going through that much then the system is either chock full of coral or it's precipitating out. I lean toward the latter.
Raising your alk will lower the cal some. It's what I would do after a water change.
I hope this article proves useful is understanding and dealing with the different types of calcium and alkalinity problems encountered by reef keepers. Once you get calcium and alkalinity under control, you are far along the road to having your tank chemistry optimal for its inhabitants.
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You're in Zone 4
I still highly recommended taking a sample to a LFS for them to test so you can make the correct adjustments.