I separated the 2 fish and had put the male in the display , but put him back in qt once I thought about how stupid that was of me , they both died in qt , my other fish look good , so I'm hoping for the best from the brief exposure to the male whom at the time showed no symptoms.
I keep thinking now if I had kept them separate he may have not gotten sick from her , but most likely it would have infected all my fish had I left it be.