Dave, you will want to use RO water and about 10% antifreeze. Its either that or straight alc. Well you are in the boonies, just get your neighbor to make you a few gallons of moonshine 
You dont need a flow meter, just hook the system up and time it into a bucket. Once you get the initial flow your done.
yes get two temp sensors, one in one out of the Ti exchanger. This will tell you the incoming temp of the water and if its getting heat soaked over time, and how much heat your removing from the tank. Using that info and the flow speed I can tell you exactly how many BTU/h of heat it is removing.
you will also want a resivour tank that isthe high point of the system to add coolant to and monitor if there is a leak in the system.

You dont need a flow meter, just hook the system up and time it into a bucket. Once you get the initial flow your done.
yes get two temp sensors, one in one out of the Ti exchanger. This will tell you the incoming temp of the water and if its getting heat soaked over time, and how much heat your removing from the tank. Using that info and the flow speed I can tell you exactly how many BTU/h of heat it is removing.
you will also want a resivour tank that isthe high point of the system to add coolant to and monitor if there is a leak in the system.