Chris, I don't really want to get into a peeing contest with you. For one, I don't have the right equipment. For another, this is not an appropriate venue for it.
I don't agree with everything you suggest, and I don't expect you to agree with everything I suggest. There are many ways to do things in this hobby, and I am respectful of that, and if I challenge something you suggest, I always do it tactfully. I am asking and expecting the same of you, please.
There are many different salt formulas on the market, that's a fact. It's also a fact that "back in the day" when I started in this hobby, it was common knowledge that newly mixed artificial seawater contained ammonia until it was properly aged. Nowadays, salt mix "ages" much more quickly. I still prefer to age water. That's "just me". I also encourage people who buy water at my shop and store it, to mix and aerate it prior to use. Some do, some don't - that's up to them.
I, too, encourage people to check their new saltwater before using it, although surprisingly many do not. In particular, some who purchase pre-made saltwater at a LFS do not check its specific gravity, let alone pH or any other parameter. I've seen too many people accidentally either buy or use the "wrong" water (IE RO instead of saltwater) and have a panic when they realize the error after the fact. At the bare minimum, they should at least make sure it's saltwater if they are doing a water change, and fresh if they are just topping off.
I concur that most wipe-outs are due to "user error" - so I don't think there's an argument to be had there.
I'm also not a big fan of bottled products intended to cycle tanks - live rock does a better job at that coupled with patience. So I'm not sure why you are picking flies with me there. I do sell Seachem Stability but I don't recall saying that it was a recommendation for this individual (although I think somebody suggested a bacterial supplement - it was not me.) Stability has its applications, IMO more so for freshwater, but that's a whole other discussion.
And I too, support patience when setting up and maintaining a tank, so again, I'm not sure why you are calling me out on that practice.
As far as modern salt mixes not needing the same aging process as back in the day, there are plenty of threads/articles about it. Here's one with a poll:
https://www.3reef.com/forums/salt/how-long-do-you-let-salt-water-age-before-using-48766.html">https://www.3reef.com/forums/salt/how-long-do-you-let-salt-water-age-before-using-48766.html</a>
Most who responded do not age their water at all, and those reporting claim no ill effects. Take from that what you wish - I still prefer aged water - it fits with my aged self.
Respectfully,
Jenn