The reason I ask that you measure between ground and neutral is there should only be one location where the two are bonded. That is at the first means of disconnect. If they are bonded elsewhere in the home, you may be getting stray voltage comeing from other devices in the home over the ground wire. When you place a lead in the tank and one in the ground on the receptacle you are completing a new path with a different potential. That would show up on the meter as voltage.